Sunday, August 2, 2015

Miss Claire is 8

Claire turned 8 a few months ago - I hate to say how many months. The voice that wakes me up at 3 in the morning and lists all the things I didn't do that I need to do has been reminding me regularly that writing Claire's birthday post has been delayed way too long. I know Claire won't hold it against me.

I can say the same things about Claire every year. She is a sweetheart. She is creative. She is a loving person. The thing that is new this year is that she's just about a big kid. We pretend she is still our baby - and she makes that easy by being such a cuddle bunny - but she is not a baby at all.

It is wonderful to watch Claire grow. She is a person who looks for fun everywhere. She always wants to do the right thing - whether it is to be honest or generous or encouraging. She's always looking for tools and supplies for her next greatest creation. She loves the good things in life.

Claire finished second grade in June. She spent the year learning all the things that come with second grade: multiplication, book reports, classroom jobs. She's good at math, a great reader and needs improvement in her spelling and printing.

She's learning more responsibility at home. She has always wanted to be able to do things for herself and that makes it easy to inspire her to stretch herself. One day she got tired of waiting in the tub for me to come and wash her hair, so she did it herself. Sometime later I found she was putting on conditioner before shampoo and we made the correction. She's trying really hard to brush her own hair, too, but gets frustrated by how long her hair is compared with how short her arms are. She still needs a little help with her huge tangles.

Claire is an unbelievably flexible person. Yes, she's easy going emotionally, but I'm talking about her ability to do the splits and all the most advanced yoga positions I can show her. It's astounding. It's very entertaining to watch her contortions. She makes us laugh every day. One of her funny moves is to take the large T-shirt she sleeps in and put it on tail first, or sleeves as pants, or legs in the neck or any number of variations.

Claire's an earthy person, sensitive to smells and textures, flavors, temperatures and feelings. She's not prissy about it at all, quite the opposite. We're working on finding the balance between funny and gross. I have to admit I find it all hilarious.

You can always count on Claire for a hug and a kiss. As she grows, it's easy to see that she has become more guarded, but she still shares her love generously. She had a little heartbreak with a friendship gone bad and after she shed her tears, she took it bravely. She felt lonely, but made her apologies and moved on. I was proud of her.

It's not easy being the younger sister (or the older, I know) and Claire admires her sister but still has her own identity. She loves to play with Audrey and be involved in whatever Audrey is doing. She's a great audience for Audrey's Harry Potter quote sessions and tends to let her sister choose what to watch on TV. We will see how we weather the next few years as Audrey becomes a teen. I hope they will still have fun together.

I can't access recent photos right now, or I'd include a few. I just wanted to write a little to capture what Claire is like right now. I find her so delightful and warm. So unique and beautiful. I'm grateful.


Thursday, January 1, 2015

Merry Christmas


Dear friends and family,

We hope 2014 has treated you well. We’ve been busy, but can’t complain. We try hard not to be busy, but with two kids, two jobs, and a really old house, there’s always something to do. 

We spent a part of our spring break this year “glamping” in Santa Barbara at El Capitan Canyon. We swam, hiked, played with the goats and llamas, and ate some delicious food – not goat or llama. Mark had a close encounter with a skunk and, after the terror dissipated, was very glad he hadn’t been sprayed, because he didn’t want to hitchhike home. 

In July we visited the Sequoias and loved our time boating, kayaking, paddle boarding and standing in awe under some mind-bogglingly-large trees. In August we went camping for real, and even though we all love camping, it was a far cry from the comfy days we enjoyed in Santa Barbara. I spent much of our last night feeling like things were crawling on me and woke to find it was not my imagination - there were ants in my sleeping bag. It wasn’t supposed to be our last night, but after that, I was more than ready to go home. 

Mark and I went to Provo, Utah in October to celebrate our 17th wedding anniversary. It was all great fun except the anticipated highlight of our trip: watching BYU beat Utah State. BYU’s quarterback broke his leg during the first quarter and the team lost steadily for the rest of the game. I might have screamed a little, and Mark is now convinced he has some kind of curse that makes BYU lose every time he attends a game. We spent a couple of days there touring campus and Utah County, visiting our old apartments, eating at restaurants we knew and some we didn’t, riding the lift at Sundance, and admiring the beautiful mountains. Our dorms are gone and the field where we got engaged was torn up for construction, but everything else was so familiar, we felt like we’d never left. 

Claire is in 2nd grade. She’ll be 8 in March. She’s reading anything she can get her hands on and still crafting like it’s life or death. The crafting has led to a less positive hobby: the hoarding of crafts and crafting materials. Her room is pretty trashed. But she’s so sunny and delightful, we don’t scold too much. Claire’s always sharing her love in the form of hugs, kisses, impromptu dances, notes, acts of service and the crafts already mentioned. She’s getting very tall, but I still pretend she’s little.

Audrey is in 5th grade and growing up fast. She just turned 11 this month, and even though it’s bittersweet, I’m finding it easy to accept her new maturity. It’s nice to have another responsible and conscientious person in the house. She’s got a fun sense of humor, too, and we are starting to have conversations that we both enjoy. Audrey still asks 110 questions a day, but now the questions are harder to answer and often reveal a hidden agenda. Sometimes we think she’s going to be a lawyer, but she says she’s going to be an artist.

I’m busy with my work as a stay-at-home mom and part-time freelancer. I’d like to do more freelance and less laundry, so we will see what the future brings. I still play a lot of tennis and do yoga several times a week. Tennis gives me something to whack at and yoga makes me slow down and breathe. I’d like to say I’m never stressed, and handle life with calmness and dignity, but that would be a huge lie. I enjoy my garden quite a bit and learned how to can my extra veggies this summer – our cupboards are full of good things I worked too hard to make to even consider eating.

Mark began his new job at Western Digital in March. His commute is long, but his hours are reasonable. We were fortunate because the position came along just when his freelance contract ended. It was a crazy time for us living on an income that fluctuated from a little to a lot every few months, but we made it work and are grateful everything worked out for our benefit. Mark just went to Taiwan and will be at the CES show in Vegas in January. When he’s not working or traveling he’s taking on the extra-exasperating jobs like bedtime, math homework, and the memorization of times tables.

It’s a wonderful time of year, and we are grateful for our home and health, friends and family. Our kids are getting older, but are still young enough to enjoy all of our traditions. They look forward to the holidays and trips and celebrations so much it makes all the hard work worthwhile. We are soaking in every moment. 

Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!  Love, the Sterzicks – Mark, Melissa, Audrey and Claire



Sequioa July 2014

 

April 2014

April 2014

Torrance Plunge August 2014

Camping at Crystal Cove August 2014

Camping at Crystal Cove August 2014

Big duck - Long Beach August 2014


Disney Hall January 2014



Disney Hall January 2014

Disney Hall January 2014

Disney Hall January 2014








Halloween 2014







Disney Hall January 2014

Sequoia July 2014

Hume Lake July 2014

Hume Lake July 2014

Hume Lake July 2014

Last day of school - June 2014

End of the year class party - June 2014

End of the year class party - June 2014

Knott's Berry Farm March 2014 (Claire's birthday)

Chelsea's wedding March 2014, Arizona

Chelsea's wedding March 2014, Arizona

Knott's Berry Farm March 2014 (Claire's birthday)

Anza Elementary open house June 2014

Anza Elementary open house June 2014

Mother's Day 2014

Halloween 2014

Shopping with mom

West High cheer clinic October 2014

First day of school September 2014

Torrance plunge summer 2014

Anza Elementary movie night September 2014